For Years, I Thought Men Were The Answer. Then I Met My Girlfriend
Every time I called friends who were also attracted to men, they said, “Girl, we’re in the same boat. These dudes ain’t sh*t!” One of them even suggested I just …
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7 Things A Happiness Scientist Taught Me About Finding More Joy
On the weekends my boyfriend and I like to play a game: Let’s Look At Stupidly Expensive Homes In London. There are a few moments of distantly bathing in the …
How to Find the Best Dating Apps (and Get the Most Out of Them)
Dating can be a lot of things, especially in 2023. Scary, overwhelming, time-consuming, sure, but it can also be exciting and lively and add a dash of “do it for …
Can I Stop My Friend From Marrying the Wrong Man?
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Yours, A confused bridesmaid Dear Confused Bridesmaid, The Serenity Prayer, made famous by various 12-step addiction-recovery programs, asks the divine to grant us acceptance of things we cannot change, courage …
Meryl Streep, Divorce Influencer? | Vogue
It’s been a long and winding season of splits, which isn’t necessarily something to cheer on, but it does support my long-held hypothesis that sometimes, divorce is the best thing …
Why I Appreciate Victoria Beckham’s Openness About Her Marital Strife, Even 10 Years Later
Later down the line, I fantasized about it as an easier option, to just walk away from the months of heartbreak that followed, the hard conversations that kept recurring, the …
Will and Jada Pinkett Smith’s Secret Separation Is Actually…Kind of Genius?
I’m on the record as being a huge divorce stan (as the child of parents who split up amicably when I was eight, I can attest that sometimes the end …
What Comes After Codependence? | Vogue
It doesn’t feel very enlightened to admit it, but I’m not anti the idea of codependence. I mean, it’s sort of romantic—in a chic, pre-millennial toxic kind of way—as a …
Five Years Into My Relationship, I Reconnected With Three Former Boyfriends. Here’s What I Learned
As much as I’d like to think that I’ve grown since my teens and early 20s, I used to handle conflicts in relationships in exactly the same way. Can it …
Are Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce Dating?
Love is a many-splendored thing, especially when you’re gawking at it from the outside. In this column, we’ll be examining the celebrity couples that give us hope for our own …