There’s something undeniably arousing about traveling. The thrill of exploring a new place and leaving all your day-to-day responsibilities is a special kind of foreplay. But if you’ve ever brought your favorite toys along for the ride, you should know: Vacation sex can get even hotter.
Whether you’re planning to indulge in a little solo self-care or get down with someone else, traveling with toys is the way to do it. Of course, traveling with a vibrator can pose some…awkward situations. What if the toy accidentally turns on inside your bag? What if the security agent has to search your luggage and pulls out a dildo in front of everyone? Fear not. We’ve compiled a list of travel tips so you can vibe on vacay however you please.
Keep scrolling for our best tips for traveling with sex toys, plus some product recommendations from Spencer’s, an expert in the field with over 60 years of experience selling intimate products. Then, visit Spencer’s in-store to see its wide variety of products.
Bring toys that are on the quieter side. If you’re worried about the people on the other side of the hotel wall hearing what you’re up to, consider bringing a vibe that’s on the quieter side. You might assume from its looks that this 7.5-inch, 20-function toy can be heard by everyone, but it’s whisper quiet while delivering extreme power, and can run for an hour of play. Plus, when you buy a toy from Spencer’s, you can see both the power rating and the sound level on the product page.
Consider waterproof vibes. One way to kill a buzz—accidentally drowning your vibrator. If you’re planning on getting down in the shower, bath, or hot tub, double-check that your toy is waterproof before you hop in. This one from Oona—sold exclusively at Spencer’s—is made from non-toxic and body-safe ABS plastic, and has 10 distinct vibration modes for fun that’s wet in more ways than one.
Consider packing toys that don’t need batteries at all. Another way to avoid embarrassing encounters is to pack sex toys that have zero chance of buzzing in your bag. Think nonvibrating butt plugs, dildos, or penis strokers. You could also bring a rechargeable toy but drain the battery in the days leading up to your trip, so that it’s dead (or nearly dead) when you put it in your bag. Not only is it practical, but masturbating is a fun way to eliminate pre-travel stress. Just don’t forget to pack your charger, so you can juice it back up when you arrive at your destination. This beginner-friendly 2.7-inch-long toy has a girth of one inch at its thickest point, a tapered tip and flared base—plus its safe for use with lubricants.
Don’t be afraid to try something new. What are vacations for if not trying new things? If you haven’t yet, put on a panty vibe before going to dinner and hand the controls over to your partner. The below kit comes with lace panties, a satin blindfold, rechargeable bullet vibrator, and wireless remote control. Put on the blindfold when you get to the bedroom so you’re surprised by the four different speeds and seven patterns. This might just be your most exciting vacation yet.
Don’t forget the extras. In addition to the aforementioned charging cables and batteries, you’ll want to make sure you have other essentials like lube and sex-toy cleaners on hand. Plus, when things get hot and heavy, you don’t want a lack of condoms to keep you from climaxing. Just don’t forget: When traveling by plane, keep your liquids to 3.4 ounces (each) or under. Pack a water-based lube like this one, which is just 1.69 ounces. It’s totally odorless, and washes off with warm water and antibacterial soap.
Be a dear and pack in clear. Watching an airport security agent unearth sex toys from the depths of your carry-on can be nightmare fuel, but there’s one thing you can do to make it a little less mortifying. Pack your toys in a clear plastic bag so the agent can see the item, but doesn’t have to touch it. After all, keeping sex toys clean and sanitary is sacrosanct. Also remember that you can always pack toys in a checked bag instead of your carry-on. There’s still a chance that your checked bag gets searched, buuut at least you don’t have to stand there in a full-body cringe while the entire security line watches.
If you have questions about finding the right vibrator for you and your partner, Spencer’s Ask Jackie and its intimate support team can provide answers fast via email or phone, from how to choose the proper girth to instructions on using a given product.
Contributing Writer
Jamie Ballard (she/her) is a freelance writer and editor who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics, including sex and relationships, TV, movies, books, health, pets, food and drinks, pop culture, shopping, and personal finance. She regularly contributes to Cosmopolitan, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, and YouGov, among other publications. When she’s not working, you can find her running, traveling, or scrolling TikTok. Follow her on Twitter.